1) No one will feel sorry for me.
You are asked how are you today? You respond, "chile you know when you reach a certain age everything goes. This arthritis is acting up; my pressure is up and the doctor said that my kidneys are weak. Otherwise I am fine."
2) I will have to do my own chores.
"I need a home maker. This house work is too much for me."
3) Have to hold a job.
Can’t run from hard work anymore; can’t retire.
4) I can't draw disability.
If I’m well I can’t draw disability; it’s better than working.
5) Can't get a handicap sticker for parking.
6) People will blame me when I forget.
Can't use the excuse, “my mind ain't what it used to be”.
7) Can’t get into special housing (senior citizen housing).
8) No more freebees from church and other organizations.
9) Have to accept responsibilities.
e.g., I’m sick please don’t stress me out asking me to pay bills etc.
10) No one will wait on me hand and foot.
e.g., “Child get me a glass of water these old bones ache every time I move”.
11) No special treatment
“You know I’m sick”.
12) Too sick to be of service to others.
“I can’t feed the homeless, I need somebody to feed me”.
13) Can’t do or say whatever I please.
We all know that nobody want to hurt a sick person.
Thirteen reasons why you don’t want to get well... Although they may seem comical, people settle into the attention and excuses for maintaining ill health.
We marvel at the question Jesus asked the lame man laying by the pool waiting for someone to push him in when the water was troubled, do you want to be healed?. Jesus' reply was if you want to be healed, take up your bed and walk.
Are you ready to give up all of the false privileges of being sick? Then take up your bed and walk. Be responsible for your own health and well being. You and you alone are responsible for your health.
If you want to get well, go to my web site www.hilevwell.com.
